Advice No. 24

School has always been really important to me. I’ve always had really good grades, but now they seem to be getting lower. I mean, I’m not failing or anything, it’s just lower than my average. I don’t know if it’s just because it’s the end of the year, but it’s getting really frustrating. Arrgh! I’ve asked my teachers for extra credit, and they’ve given me some, but it’s not bringing my grades up. I think I’ll have an “A-“ in Honors English when I have had all “A”s in that class this year. I know, you’re probably thinking, She’s freaking out over an “A-“?. But I have “B”s, too. Okay, weak argument, I know. It’s not like my grades are horrible or anything, I just know I can do better.

he part that bugs me the most is that I feel like I’m letting people down. I’m letting myself, my parents, and my teachers down because they all know I can do better. I wish there was a way to make it better. If you have advice, please comment! I really need help!!!

Advice No. 16

There's a girl that likes me and I want to talk to her but when I do, she just acts like she doesn't want to talk to me. Then when we're texting each other, she keeps saying that I should talk to her at the school. And whenever I say hi in the halls she says hi back in a really grumpy voice like, "Why won't he just leave me alone?" But then she texts me every day and is completely different. And when she was texting me on Sunday night she asked me, "Do you like me now?" And I said yes and now everyone knows but I'm having second thoughts and I don't know what to do. If anyone has advice, please speak up.

Advice NO. 2

Have you ever felt really happy. So happy you could dive off a diving board or have you ever felt down in the dumps and didn’t want to talk about it. Well I have and I tell you it really sucks when you tell your friend what’s happened or something and they laugh at you and then go tell there friends and there friends tell there friends and then you know it will be around the school and you would just feel so miserable you would not want to be in this world anymore? Well my life is like that right now I have been going through some rough times with my friend’s family and one of my school teachers. I have a couple problems with a couple of my friends that I have one friend I have told her a couple of things what have happened in my life and she turns around and then tells her other friends and before I know it my secret is all around the school and that moment when I heard it from one of my best friends I just so angry I wanted to hurt myself because I did not know what to do. then I have this one really best friend and he is fun and cool to hang out and be with. but he gets into a lot of trouble and sometimes I dont know what to do with him but then he had this one kid call me up and harass me for no reason at all and then the day before that he hurt me really bad but he did not hit me or anything like that I dont know what should I do about this kid? and then I have this one problem with one of my teacher and I went in and talked to her because she marked for of my problems wrong when they were actually right and you know what she did she said because. I had erase marks she told me I was cheating and I wasnt it mad me feel so sad that she would accuse me of cheating when I didnt just because of erase marks a teacher can assume you are cheating is that right or wrong? How can a teacher accuse a student at cheating when she has no evidence to prove?

When I have problems that I have to fix. all I do is mostly sugar coat it. I never really work then out because it is hard for me to talk how I feel instead of getting mad and showing it in an angry. So I dont know what to do with the teacher accusing me of cheating which I dont or I would get A's on all my tests,a guy friend that keeps hurting my feelings and one of my friends that is a girl who goes around telling everything I tell her. Iam asking for help on all of my needs because all I seem to do is sugar coat it so I cant feel any pain or I get so mad I punch a hole in the wall because. I dont know how to express some of my feelings without getting mad or really irratated. all I seem to do is make the problem worse. So people who read this please give me good advise and leave me awesome comments so I can use your guys advice to help me now and in the future.

Advice No. 17

I am addicted to the written word. I love loosing myself in another world. The problem is that I get so caught up in a book that I keep loosing track of the real world. When I am in class, all I can think about is the book I’m reading. What is happening? Who or what will I meet next? What new sights have I not read about? I get so caught up in the questions and the answers that I loose touch with what I am supposed to be doing in class. And then when I actually read my book, it seems as if I am no longer on earth. I know that sound is going on around me, but I can’t hear it. I can’t see or put words to anything that goes on around me, only what is happening in my book. I feels as if I’m really asleep even though I am only reading, when I finish a chapter and I look up into the real world, it really feels as if I was asleep. This is beginning to be a problem. I love reading my books and don’t want to give them up, but I also feel as if I am loosing my mind to a fantasy world. Help!

I can’t seem to wake up. It’s a lot like when I read a book, other then the fact that I am actually asleep and not reading. I seem to be sleeping more and more. I’m a night person though so I go to sleep in the middle of the night. But I keep on waking up later and later. My mom keeps on getting angry that I can’t get up earlier when I go to bed sooner. She tries to make me hurry up in the morning also, but I am also defiantly not a morning person. I like my sleep. What should I try to do about this?

Advice no. 12

I love lemonade very much. Ever since I was little I have loved lemons because they are sour. Lemonade can be made with other fruit flavors mixed in such as raspberry strawberry, kiwi, and much more. Once I went to a restaurant and ordered a mango lemonade. I was very delicious and refreshing. Because, however, it had sugar it made me thirsty for more. When our waitress came I asked for a free refill she told me that you cannot get free refills of lemonade and that you must pay two dollars more. I could not believe it!

At restaurants you are guaranteed free refills on all fountain drinks but not lemonade. That's absurd!I don't want to quit drinking the sweet lemonade but I get so thirsty that I need refills. I do not like sodas or any other fountain drinks, just lemonade. What do I do?

Advice No. 10

I have this coach. He is a great coach and he makes us better but he is always in a really bad mood. He makes fun of us and calls us mean names such as “Chuckie, Retard” and stuff like that. He is always in a bad mood except when we are his idea of “good.” Whenever some of us are good he makes us do extra conditioning and more of the events that we don’t like. When my old coach left and this new one came, my performance and level of what I could do went downhill. None of my team members like this new coach when he is in a bad mood. When he is in a good mood he will let us have free time and experiment with new skills, and make fun of HIM, but if he gets irritated, he turns into a devil!

A few of my friends and I want to talk to him about this problem, but we know that he will get mad at us or have our parents come in to talk about it. We don’t want that to happen. How can we get him to listen to us without getting mad? We really want him to stop teasing us because having him say tings like “ that sucked,” or “ that’s horrible, try it again but do it better,” makes us go downhill like a sled on ice! I need to know how to get brave and tell him to stop and let us do it how we think is right, and then if it is wrong, tell us what to fix. I really need help! Please!

Advice NO. 18

Have you ever had a time in your life where you are so happy that you can't even explain it, or have you ever felt as though you are so sad and depressed that you don't want to explain it to anyone? Right now I am so low in my life, I actually thought of suicide the other day. It is as though there is nothing in my life that is worth living for. I have these random mood swings, and I feel as though I am happy, but all of the sudden I get really depressed and I have trouble doing anything. Even music, the thing that has saved me countless times, doesn't help.

I don't know what to do. I want help, but I can't tell my parents. If I told them, then I would be locked up somewhere, and wouldn't have a life. Then I would go crazy and end up taking my life. I would ask my school counsler, but they would tell my parents. I have gone to every friend that I can trust, but that is not enough. I need help!!

Advice #26

I'm having girl troubles. I like this girl so much but I keep saying the wrong thing. I know she likes me but she never shows it. She does ocassionaly. Then a couple days ago I find out she still does. It was the best feeling in the world.

I don't know how long this will last though I like her alot and I think she likes me alot to. The only problem is I don't know how long she will continue to keep liking me. Other boys like her to I can't blame them though she is one of the most amazing people I've ever met. She is smart, nice, honest and beyond beautiful. So my problem is how do I keep her liking me ? Besides my sexyness. Just joking but please help me.

Advice No.4

Growing up I've always have had a lot of best friends. Sure we move a lot, but we still keep in contact. Right now I'm having a little bit of an issue with the group of friends I hang out with. They know that I don't wear immodest clothing, or say offensive things to people; and they are okay with that. For a big reason I feel as if I don't belong in the group, or any group for that matter. I've tried to change my self to fit in, but I cant let my level of integrity get as low as theirs. I have enough problems at home trying to please my family as the only child that turned out how they expected. Yet I get sick of it, I'm spoiled because of my good deeds. In which is not the problem, its just that I want to be my self with out disappointing my family.

I have tried to explain to my friends about the issue, but all they can say is "don't worry about it." I cant not worry about it, I mean they say and do things that I don't want to do. I would find new friends, but for me that is not easy. Why is it that in this world today, you have to wear tight clothing, and make fun of others in order to fit in? I know things will even out soon, but for now I can't help but feel as if I'm alone some times.

Advice #3

I need some help with a problem I am having the problem is I can't think I need advice on. My life is almost perfect right now the only thing is that I am going to fail this class if I don't write a good advice post. So that is my problem.

I need ideas for a good advice post that get me a B at least because if I get a F my parents will freak and I will be grounded for the hole summer and so if you have any ideas tell me in the comment box

Advice #23

Dear Advice,

I am having troubles with this one girl. She likes me but I don't know if I like her. She always tries to text me but I don't know if I should text her alot. It is hard to talk to her because she always tries to flirt with me. All of my friends say that I should go out with her but I don't know if I should.

She is pretty cute but she starts to act wierd around me. All of her friends want me to ask her out. They all say we would make a good couple. I need help with my girl trouble please. What should I do?

Advice No.11

Have you ever had a problem where you feel so stressed over you want to explode? Have you ever had a problem where you felt like you have no one to turn to? Sometimes people need help for big problems or even little problems that seem like nothing. For problems like that, people need advice. For the past couple of weeks ive had some problems that i need a little help with, you see, my best friend and another friend havent exactly been acting that great together. it seems as if all they do is either fight or just annoy eachother till one of them cant handle it anymore. Its been pretty hectic because im stuck right in between them. Ive already told one of them to cut it out and stop annoying the other person till they crack, and they did for about a week. Then they went right back to doing it.

Thats what i need help with. I dont know how to tell my friend he really needs to stop bugging my other friend. I want him to get the message that he needs to stop, but i dont want to hurt his feelings. I also need to find a way to tell my best friend that maybe she needs to handle it a little better rather than freaking out everytime she gets annoyed. I really need advice asap before they end up having a huge fight and arent friends any more, which would be a terrible thing for all of us.

Advice by no. 7

Why does life always seem like people know to much or they are just stuck up. I seem like I'm the out cast in life were I live there are no true people like me. When people stand in groups they all ways talk what goes on in their life's and they always relate with one another. Life mostly there is someone that seems out of place. Placement mostly should be fair but when a family moves out of your comfort zone why should you have to change. Me I have changed so much in life this summer I'm going to get back into my zone.

Knowing that people come different why do almost every person still judge. Friends are people that relate to you or you just flat out like their personality. Have you ever wonder if your friends are really like you? If so why do they have to change themselves to relate to you or the friends around you. Sometimes I wonder if my friends see it in me.

Advice No. 30

Life has it's ups and it's downs. Sometimes it can be easy, and sometimes it could be very hard. Some parts of my life that have been complicated is when family passes away. Another thing is when you are really mad and having a bad day, all you want to do is be alone. Sometimes I just feel like I am left out of things and everyone talks about me and talks behind my back.

Even though I have hard times, I can't complain because I know that there are other people out there that have hard times, and to them, my life is Paradise. Some kids that I know have parents that are not a good example to them and they are in prison. I also know some kids that have parents that have passed away and I have friends that have been adopted and they don't know how it feels to live with their own parents.

Advice, No.5

My grandma asked me what she should do about this problem she has. I'm not sure exactly what to tell her what to do. So, here is my grandma's problem. My grandma is a nice, kind, soft-hearted person. When somebody asks her to make something or make a quilt for them she is just to kind to say no even if she is really sick and doesn't fell well. Resently she went on a vacation. We have a really big family and we all went. Everybody was going and they were going with her, her motor home, her boat, her food, her money for the campsite, everything.

On this vacation everybody came because the people who were coming invited other people outside of our family. She had to provide the food for everyone, which is a lot of people. My grandma weights on people hand and foot. She cleans up after everyone, she is always making the food for everyone, she does the dishes for everyone. She isn't very young and its exhausting. Nobody helps her with anything but me and one of my other cousins. Everyone just goes along on this free ride, have great benefits, and can't even help her out a little bit. She doesn't know how to tell them NO! And so she has asked me what to do and I'm not really sure what to do, so maybe you could give me some helpful advice. Thanks!

advice,No. 23

I’m really starting to get worried about my grades. They’ve been starting to slip and my mom said she going to check them this Thursday. I really don’t know what to do. I don’t want her to know how bad my grades are, because I don’t want to hurt her. What should I do?

Since I’m talking to my self, I would say that you should just tell her. She’s going to find out anyways. I’m not sure if I should be answering this myself, so I’m just gonna make this short.

Advice No: 18

Hey, I need help with something. There is this boy. I love him. I really do! I have been with him on and off for ten months now and we are broken up again. I am so confused. He says he loves me and likes me and stuff, he just doesnt want a relationship. What is that supposed to mean? some one should really tell me because i am so lost it isnt funny. I am confused, lost and everything else related. I want to stay but i dont want to just keep coming back. This kid means so much to me and I always want him to be a part of my life. I am just afraid he wont stay there. I love him I really do someone please tell me what to do!


Stagefright: My BIGGEST fear. I will fail classes, not turn projects in and even not participate just so I dont have to be in front of people. Just so I Dont have to stand up and say a few things. This is ridiculous! I am Failing classes just for this. What am I supposed to do? I feel Like I am Going to throw up every time I get up there. It is just so scary! I dont get how people can do it! but high fives for you. If yopu are one of those people you should give some advice on how to calm doen. It would really help. It would help allot actually. I want to be able to stand up and do it. I just cant. . .

Advice~19

I have been having problems at school with my grades getting a lot lower then they were this whole year and it is weird because I got the best grades for this hole year so far last semester. And like right know then they are just so low. I don’t know what to do about it, there are some things that might be the whole reason that my grades are going so low, but I will tell you later in this thing that I am righting. Well, like even in some of my classes then I have everything turned in and I still have a C I am used to getting like A’s and B’s but never C’s and I have way to many C’s D’s or F’s. I am really scared what if I do bad on the CRT and my grades go even more down. My parents would get so mad.

Ok like I said I am going to tell you some of the reasons it might know why my grades are going down. One of the reasons could be just because it is almost summer and I am looking so forward to it and like the warm blazing sun and just like going swimming a lot. I love going swimming. Another reason might just be because my stuff could be getting harder, it think that my homework is getting harder than it used to be. I do know how to do the stuff I just have a lot more of the stuff to do and its stupid cause I always wait the last minute to do my homework. On the weekends I usually end up doing all of my homework for that weekend really late at night of Sunday. Except if my mom says I have to do it on Saturday, but I guess that only happened once.
No. 19

Advice No. 27

Q: I love my friends, but lately they have been telling racist jokes and resenting people who are different then them. Not all of them do it, but a few of them do. They used to rarely do it but now they do it all the time.

It makes me feel uncomfortable and mad when they do these things, because it is disrespectful and mean. Plus I know that they are better than this. When they do this I tell them to stop it or try to change the subject, but they still do it. How do I make them stop?

Advice~No.16

My Parents have been divorced since I was 2 years old, and all these years I have lived with my mom most of the time, only seeing my dad every other weekend and certain holidays. Well in November my Mom and my step dad decided to move to St George, I had a problem with this. I didn’t want to leave all my friends and my Dad; I would be like 300 miles away. That’s way too far for me. I already had trouble not being able to see my Dad that much every month. So when I found out that my Mom had found a house I refused to go. So therefore I moved in with my dad here in Murray.

When we got together and talked about what was going to happen, My parent told me that I had to decided weather I stay with my dad next year or move to St. George with my Mom. They told me I had to decide by the end of summer. Since summer is getting close, they keep asking me if I have thought about it. And of course I have, but it’s hard. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings and I feel way too much pressure. I don’t know who to pick. I love them both. Mom or Dad? Murray or St.George? What do I tell them? What if I do hurt one of them? I just don’t know what to do.

~16 :)