Thursday, May 28, 2009

Advice, No.5

My grandma asked me what she should do about this problem she has. I'm not sure exactly what to tell her what to do. So, here is my grandma's problem. My grandma is a nice, kind, soft-hearted person. When somebody asks her to make something or make a quilt for them she is just to kind to say no even if she is really sick and doesn't fell well. Resently she went on a vacation. We have a really big family and we all went. Everybody was going and they were going with her, her motor home, her boat, her food, her money for the campsite, everything.

On this vacation everybody came because the people who were coming invited other people outside of our family. She had to provide the food for everyone, which is a lot of people. My grandma weights on people hand and foot. She cleans up after everyone, she is always making the food for everyone, she does the dishes for everyone. She isn't very young and its exhausting. Nobody helps her with anything but me and one of my other cousins. Everyone just goes along on this free ride, have great benefits, and can't even help her out a little bit. She doesn't know how to tell them NO! And so she has asked me what to do and I'm not really sure what to do, so maybe you could give me some helpful advice. Thanks!

3 comments:

Writer said...

No. 30

Here is some advice, if you are having a big vacation, you should have everyone put a certian amount of mony in a jar for food and everything. Then give the jar to your grandma.

Writer said...

dear no. 5,
you should talk to your other family members and tell them to help out. I sounds like your grandma is doing a lot of work just make sure that your other family members know that, and tell them they need to help. Keep helping and loving your grandma, be the best grandchild you can be and she'll be happy! =)
~no. 14

Writer said...

Dear No. 5,
Being your grandma doesn't sound very fun. Maybe you could try and help her out. You could even get on people's cases and get them to help. Have everyone chip in enough money to feed themselves, and get them to show some apprecation.

NO. 18